MY DAILY LIFE TORAH COACH:
Parashat Beha’alotecha N.37

This week’s parashah describes the appointment of seventy elders to help judge the people. As God tells Moshe, “I will draw upon the spirit that is on you and put it upon them,” so that the elders will share the burden of the people with Moshe (Numbers 11:17). The elders are brought to the Tent of Meeting and instilled with the prophetic spirit. This event highlights the theme of shared leadership and the distribution of responsibility, which are key aspects of effective governance and community support.

Parashat Beha’alotecha, while not directly addressing gossip in the specific sense, indirectly teaches also about the dangers of negative speech through the incident where Miriam speaks against Moses regarding his Cushite wife, and is punished with leprosy as a result (Numbers 12:1-15). This story highlights the consequences of speaking ill about others, even if it might seem justified or harmless.

Lessons for Modern Life:

The Power of Words: The story of Miriam and Aaron speaking against Moses demonstrates the powerful impact words can have. In today’s digital age, where words can be spread quickly and widely via social media, it’s crucial to be mindful of the potential harm our spoken or written words can cause.

Privacy and Respect: Miriam’s punishment reminds us of the importance of respecting others’ privacy and dignity. Discussing or revealing personal details about others without their consent can lead to significant consequences and harm relationships.

Conflict Resolution: Instead of speaking about Moses behind his back, Miriam and Aaron could have addressed their concerns directly with him. This teaches the value of
direct communication in resolving misunderstandings and conflicts, rather than resorting to gossip or backbiting.

Repentance and Forgiveness: After Miriam is punished, Moses prays for her healing,
showing compassion and forgiveness. This illustrates the importance of seeking
forgiveness when we wrong others and also being willing to forgive, to mend
relationships and foster a supportive community environment.

These insights from Parashat Beha’alotecha encourage everyone to think carefully
about their interactions and the effects of their words, fostering a more respectful and understanding society.